The Unlucky Signs That Confirm Bad Sex

Sex is similar to matching a lock with a key. Not all locks and keys match even though they may look like they should. Everyone is physically different and enjoys different things in bed. Does this make them bad in bed? No, all it shows is this person isn’t sexually compatible with you.

Ways To Know You’re Sexually Incompatible

Sexual incompatibility can be a hard thing to accept in a relationship. Of course, this isn’t something to decide right away. It takes time to understand your partner, and intimate relationships take work.

No One Is Bad At Sex

Before you point fingers at your partner for your unimpressive sex life, understand that no one is bad at sex. Of course, you can be selfish or uncaring, but no one is inherently bad at sex. Instead, everyone has experiences that are carried into their present sexual routine.

You Don’t Like Your Partner’s Sexual Preferences

We all enjoy different things when it comes to sex. Some people like BDSM, others enjoy foot jobs; when it comes to sex, there’s no formula everyone must follow. But if you find their sexual preferences disgusting and you’re unwilling to give them a try, it doesn’t sound like you are sexually compatible.

You Avoid Sex With Them

You’re sick, tired from work, or have an exam in the morning. Whatever the excuse, you use it to avoid having sex with them. Of course, there are times when you’re not going to feel like having sex, but if this happens regularly, reflect on the state of your relationship.

You’re Turned Off By Their Body

When you see your partner naked, you don’t fantasize about all the things you want to do with them. Instead, you look at their body in disgust. And this is a big problem. If you’re not sexually turned on by your partner’s body, that’s a sign you’re not sexually attracted to them.

You feel uncomfortable in many sexual positions

When having sex with your partner, every position seems uncomfortable. Everything feels like it’s too much, and honestly, you can’t wait for it to be over. If you were sexually compatible, there wouldn’t be this problem.

You’re Uncomfortable Watching Sex Scenes

When you watch Netflix together, everything is fine until a sex scene comes on. And when it does, you quickly become uncomfortable, nervous to see if your partner will comment. You shouldn’t feel like that when these things happen. I mean, you wouldn’t feel like that if you felt secure in your sex life.

You Talk About Sex Too Much

Communication is great, and when it comes to sex, it’s crucial. But if you talk about it and nothing seems to improve, well, that’s also a bad sign. Communication should bring change. And if nothing changes, it’s time to change the partner.

You Feel Uncomfortable After

After sex, there’s a long, uncomfortable silence. Oh god, can you say awkward? Listen, silence doesn’t have to be awkward, but after bad sex, silence is never a good thing. If you can’t turn to your partner and honestly say, “Wow, that was amazing,” well, then it wasn’t.

The Kissing Is Off

Like way off. You don’t know why the kissing doesn’t feel good; they seem to be doing everything right. But there’s no spark, no chemistry. You’re not feeling like you’re kissing your partner. You feel like you’re kissing some random person not a good sign of compatibility.