New Foreplay Tricks To Drive Her Wild

So, you’ve set the mood, the chemistry is right, and the consent couldn’t be any more enthusiastic. Sometimes, that slow and sensual build-up can be just as, if not more, enjoyable than the acts of sex themselves. From the passion, suspense, and anticipation of what’s to come, to the wild eyes and wandering hands as you start to undress each other, there are many ways in which foreplay can be the main attraction.

Before we dive start just remember the hottest thing you can do is what feels right for you and your partner. Experiment a little to find what works for both of you. There are many ways to set the sexual tone and no right way to do it; so, whether you’re a first-timer or looking to try something different, here are new foreplay tips to get you started.

Head Massage

Not that kind of head. We’re talking about the sensitive, easily stimulated scalp that is home to many sexual touchpoints you can activate fairly easily. Let your hands gently caress her head with slow, circular movements to start building that up close, sexual connection.

Once you’re done with the scalp, you can slowly work your way towards the neck and shoulder area, gently rubbing and feeling their body. Massage gels, oils, and flavored products can elevate the sensual experience too. With massages, use light pressure – you don’t need to work out all the knots, that’ll come later.

Normally Touch Their Thigh

It’s not just the scalp where you’ll find some sensual touchpoints. A big part of foreplay is the anticipation of what’s to come. Gently stroking or lightly gripping their thigh is a great way to start building that feeling.

Perhaps you’ll want to use your fingertips to trace up her leg and stop just before you reach the top? Don’t be afraid to tease her a little while you feel them. Or maintain some eye contact while you move your hands, letting your fingers do all the talking.

Undress Her Own

Whether your clothes are on or off, undressing your partner with your eyes can be a simple way to add a little sexual tension and suggestion. During sex, eye contact can be very erotic whilst adding a sense of intimacy to the moment. During foreplay, you can use the same technique to a similar effect.

Start by locking eyes with your partner, then move your gaze down her body. As you do this, you may want to lean into them a little. If they’re wearing clothes, begin undressing her as you bring your gaze back to theirs. From here, you can move your hands towards their erogenous zones and the eye contact can make it all the more intense.

Perform A Striptease

This is another simple way to add a little drama to your foreplay. With or without music, slowly undressing yourself in front of someone who is already incredibly turned on just by being near you can make it an even more intimate experience for you both. So, there’s no pressure to perform, just do what feels right to you.

Start with one of you sitting on a bed, chair, table – anywhere works. You might want to find some sensual, suitable music and keep a little distance between you when you start. As you start to remove more clothes, move closer to your partner, and you’ll feel the energy change.

Talk Dirty

Dirty talk, to be specific. This can follow on from the last step or be used at any point that feels right. Whilst teasing their earlobes, take the opportunity to whisper some sweet or hot nothings in their ear. Fear not, what you whisper doesn’t have to be rude or obscene.  By simply telling her that you want them, or that you love how they feel, you might start to feel her heart rate race. Including sex talk can really heighten the sexual tension,

Nibble Their Ears

This is a little trick to try out during a passionate kiss. Starting at her lips, move your way around to their cheek and then over to their left ear. Blow lightly on their lobes before nibbling, sucking, or licking her gently to increase the stimulation. Gently move your way back to her lips and then make your way to the opposite ear.

The ear lobes have hundreds of nerve endings and are considered by some as an erogenous zone, so this flirty trick is almost guaranteed to give her a thrill. Due to the ear’s sensitivity, you can increase your partner’s pleasure by being as slow and as gentle as possible.